It's Thanksgiving week (already?!) and I'm reflecting on the changes I've made, the relationships I'm blessed to have and all the good things going for me, my family and friends. It's easy to get bogged down in the "I can't do this...", the "I don't have that..." and the "poor me" - I'm as guilty as the next person. I mean, seriously, what we're exposed to every day - the materialism and bitterness driven by a "keep up with the Jones'" mentality is enough to make anyone a basket case.
Just last week I had one of those weeks. You know the ones. You feel like a huge failure, despite your best efforts and the encouragement around you. You're logical mind is hushed by your emotional mind and you forget all the things you KNOW to be true in favor of a self deprecating, media tainted, self loathing, - all designed to get you to feel so bad about yourself that you will pay exorbitant amounts of money on products that simply don't work. Ya. THAT kind of week.
But here's what happened. I talked about it and my support system lifted me up and reminded me of the things that I know. I killed a really tough workout in record time, and I enjoyed my birthday with family and friends and a great concert. I got out of my own head (with some great advice and lots of hugs) and felt 1,000% better the next day.
Everyone has low days - but you remember what Thomas Wayne said to Bruce, don't you? "Why do we fall? To pick ourselves back up."
(C'mon - who doesn't love a quality Batman reference?!)
I'm focusing on eating as clean as possible, but am going to be okay with small splurges. I'm going to work out to make me feel better physically and emotionally. I'm working on positive self talk - audible reminders of what I know logically but struggle with subconsciously.
So, in this busy season, remember that you are human, unique and special. We all set goals and sometimes fumble around before we get to the finish line. We need our support system to keep us healthy and happy. So, embrace this time with those you care about - and remember to care about YOURSELF too. It may be a winding road, but keep at it, be true to yourself and you will realize success. At least, that's my story - and I'm sticking too it!I just put some Overnight Oatmeal in the crock for a warm, hearty and healthy breakfast before getting a run in with TNT alumni and friends, and then the Turkey Circuit with Ben and the gang at Compete. Family movie, plenty of cooking and time with those I love. It's going to be a great holiday season.
Sincerely thankful ~
Until next time,
<3Jen












